A View of Myself

I Hate having my picture taken. I remember when I was little, my grandma always disappeared during family gatherings when the camera came out. That is me now. I try to fade out of the picture when the cameras begin clicking. I see a picture of myself, and I think that it not me. That is an overweight, middle-age women that I don't recognize at all, but that is certainly not me! Or at least that is not who I want to be. My kids get so frustrated with me because I don't like to see pictures of myself. Is anyone else like that?   If so, what are you doing to change?